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How Your Beliefs Help You
Create Your IdealLife
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How Your Beliefs Help You
Create Your Ideal Life
As I help my clients create
abundance in their lives and
businesses, an important
part of my work is to help
them consciously create
beliefs that will help
them create the results they
want.
This is so important!
It is simply impossible to
create your ideal life if
your belief system does not
support it. So my focus with
you this week is to explain
how this all works.
A first thing to think about
here is that beliefs are
created by thinking the
same thoughts over and over
again until they become
cemented to you as your
"reality." This is how
we create beliefs as adults.
But many of our beliefs have
been with us since we were
young children! So,
for example, if you were
taught as a young child that
"money doesn't grow on
trees," you heard that idea
over and over again.
At some point, you
internalized that belief,
and it became "reality" to
you. Until age 7 or
so, when your conscious mind
is fully formed, what other
people tell you is simply
absorbed by your
subconscious mind, which is
like a huge database that
simply accepts any data
being dumped into it.
Continuing with this same
example, as an adult, you
now operate with the belief
that "money doesn't grow on
trees." And you
constantly "see" evidence
that it is true and make
decisions about your life
from that belief, even
though you may not realize
that to be the case.
Depending on how much
self-awareness you have, and
how "busy" you keep your
mind, you probably don't
even realize this is
happening.
Here's how our beliefs work.
As humans,we instinctively
"look for evidence" that
supports our beliefs.
And that is all we "see."
So if we have a belief, for
example, that "money doesn't
grow on trees," all we will
"see" is opportunities
to make that belief true.
And we won't even notice
the opportunities that
support any other belief,
for example, that "there is
an abundance of money out
there and more ways to make
money than ever before." And
we let the opportunities to
prove that belief
just zoom right past us
without even noticing them,
much less acting on them.
This explains situations
like we saw last year, where
many people were claiming
"recession" and hunkering
down in fear and worry,
while others were out there
creating incredible fortunes
and spreading the wealth
around. These two
different groups of people
were operating from two very
different sets of beliefs,
and as a result, were
"seeing" two very different
sets of opportunities.
And, perhaps most
importantly, were
getting very different
results.
It's critical that you have
beliefs that support the
life that you want to
create! And this requires
that you start paying
attention to the beliefs
you're currently operating
from. This can be a
real challenge for people,
as the beliefs that
currently limit you may have
simply become "reality" to
you!
It really is easier to spot
these beliefs in other
people than in yourself.
My role with my clients is
often to spot these for them
and bring them out into the
light where they can make
conscious decisions about
them. And even though
it's pretty easy for me to
do this with my clients,
it's much harder to do that
for myself. That's
where my coach comes
in!
It's important to know that
you can consciously
create new beliefs that
support the life you want.
Once you see what belief is
holding you back, you can
take a look at it and
consciously decide if
you want to keep it or
replace it with a new one.
Are
your current beliefs
supporting the life you
want to live?
Your Two-Week Action Plan
Look at an area of
your life where
you're not getting
the results you
want.
Take out a sheet of
paper and do a
"dump" of all the
messages you heard
about that area as
you were growing up.
Ask a friend what
your
beliefs are about
this area -- you
might be surprised
what they have
observed!
Look at the beliefs
you've listed and
ask your self how
well each is
supporting you in
creating what you
want today.
Create replacement
beliefs for those
that aren't serving
you and consciously
decide to look for
evidence of these
new,more supportive
beliefs.
If you need help
spotting your own
limiting beliefs,
call me
at1-866-556-4565 or
email me,
and we'll see if I
can help!
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